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What Happened to You? (Paperback)
A thoughtful and moving picture book that explores disability, difference, and empathy through a gentle conversation between two children. When one child asks another, “What happened to you?”, the story unfolds as a reflection on how questions, assumptions, and curiosity can affect how we see others. The book shifts the focus away from explaining difference and instead invites readers to consider how people want to be seen and understood. Through warm illustrations and simple dialogue, children are encouraged to practise empathy, respect, and connection.
Helpful when:
Children are noticing differences in others and learning how to respond with curiosity, empathy, and respect.
This is a Roost Approved recommendation.
The Resource Roost does not sell this item and pricing and availability may vary.
Last seen priced around R199.
How to use at home
- Read together and pause at the questions in the story.
- Invite your child to share how they think the characters feel.
- Revisit the book to support ongoing conversations about difference and inclusion.
Why this is Roost approved
This book supports early childhood intervention by helping children navigate conversations around difference in a respectful and affirming way. Rather than centring disability as something to explain or fix, the story models empathy, listening, and shared humanity. The conversational structure supports comprehension and reflection, while repeated reading allows children to deepen their understanding of perspective and inclusion over time.
Age groups
Preschool (3-5) and Early Primary (5-7)
Language
English
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