Of jy nou koop vir 'n verjaarsdag, Kersfees, of sommer net, hierdie is die geskenke wat werklik gebruik word. Die geskenke wat ontwikkeling ondersteun, 'n band smee, en saam met die kind groei.

Built on possibility, optimism, and an alarming number of saved tabs.

Written by Amber, co-founder of The Resource Roost

I love open-ended play, natural curiosity and letting children be bored.

I also love drinking my wine while it’s still at the temperature the winemaker intended.

Turns out, both can be true.

So, for this holiday, I’m not just packing the usual favourites and hoping for the best.

I’m stacking the odds in my favour.

A few things Emmett hasn’t seen in a while.

A few things he’s never seen at all.

More craft supplies than we’ll probably need.

And, yes, the iPad.

Here’s what’s actually coming with us.

Gifts that help children understand themselves

Some of the gifts I've found myself saving over and over again are the ones that help children make sense of big feelings, new experiences, and the world around them.

You Choose (Paperback)

You Choose (Paperback)

Pippa Goodhart

You Choose (Paperback)

Playful storytelling for language, imagination and choice-making.

Laas gesien teen R 138

My Feelings Boontjiesakke (Stel van 10)

My Feelings Boontjiesakke (Stel van 10)

Opvoedkundige insigte

My Feelings Boontjiesakke (Stel van 10)

Praktiese gereedskap vir die benoeming en verkenning van emosies.

Laas gesien teen R 930

Ek Praat Soos 'n Rivier (Sagteband)

Ek Praat Soos 'n Rivier (Sagteband)

Jordan Scott

Ek Praat Soos 'n Rivier (Sagteband)

'n Poëtiese, bevestigende verhaal oor hakkel en selfuitdrukking.

Laas gesien teen R 195

Fatimah – My Klein Moslem Vriende (29 cm)

Fatimah – My Klein Moslem Vriende (29 cm)

Desi-pop

Fatimah – My Klein Moslem Vriende (29 cm)

Alledaagse spel wat sagkens Moslem-identiteit en -behoortheid weerspieël.

Laas gesien teen R 475

Ek Is Gaaf (Bordboek)

Ek Is Gaaf (Bordboek)

Kathryn Jewitt

Ek Is Gaaf (Bordboek)

Help kinders om vriendelikheid te herken, te benoem en te beoefen deur ’n sagte Afrikaanse storie oor groot gevoelens.

Laas gesien teen R 268

Volgorde Aktiwiteit Legkaart (Slaaptyd)

Volgorde Aktiwiteit Legkaart (Slaaptyd)

eeBoo

Volgorde Aktiwiteit Legkaart (Slaaptyd)

'n Praktiese legkaart wat kinders help om orde, roetines en wat volgende kom te verstaan.

Laas gesien teen R 189

Gifts that help children understand other people

One of the things I look for when choosing a gift is whether it opens the door to conversations. Not forced conversations, but natural ones that happen through stories and play.

Babapop Afrikaanse meisie met Downsindroom (38 cm)

Babapop Afrikaanse meisie met Downsindroom (38 cm)

Miniland

Babapop Afrikaanse meisie met Downsindroom (38 cm)

Sagte pop wat ontwerp is om regte kinders en vermoëns te weerspieël.

Last seen priced at R760

Dis 'n Geen-Geld-Dag (Sagteband)

Dis 'n Geen-Geld-Dag (Sagteband)

Kate Milner

Dis 'n Geen-Geld-Dag (Sagteband)

Bou empatie en veerkragtigheid deur werklike stories.

Last seen priced at R235

Barbie Fashionistas™ #245 Outistiese Pop

Barbie Fashionistas™ #245 Outistiese Pop

Mattel

Barbie Fashionistas™ #245 Outistiese Pop

'n Inklusiewe pop wat ontwerp is om verteenwoordiging, begrip en verbeeldingryke spel te ondersteun.

Last seen priced at R299

Groot-tannie Margot en Ek (Sagteband)

Groot-tannie Margot en Ek (Sagteband)

Bryher Mackenzie

Groot-tannie Margot en Ek (Sagteband)

'n Storie wat familieverbintenis, herinnering en geborgenheid ondersteun.

Last seen priced at R179

Emotico Magnetiese Bordspel

Emotico Magnetiese Bordspel

Djeco

Emotico Magnetiese Bordspel

Magnetiese spel vir die bou van gesigte, gevoelens en uitdrukking.

Last seen priced at R339

Vriende met Gestremdhede Figure (6 Stuk)

Vriende met Gestremdhede Figure (6 Stuk)

Miniland

Vriende met Gestremdhede Figure (6 Stuk)

Daaglikse gesinspel wat regte mense en vermoëns weerspieël.

Last seen priced at R820

Not just tractors and dinosaurs

And listen, we love a tractor. Emmett would personally like to confirm that dinosaurs, diggers and trains are all excellent.

But boys deserve the full range too.

Tender books. Feelings resources. Dolls. Caregiving play. Stories that help them understand themselves and other people.

One of my strongest parenting beliefs is that caring for others isn’t a girl skill. It’s a life skill.

So yes to the tractors.
And yes to the tenderness too.

Jellyfish Night Light & Projector with Sounds

Jellyfish Night Light & Projector with Sounds

TopBright

Jellyfish Night Light & Projector with Sounds

Soothe bedtime with soft light, calming sound and gentle wonder.

Last seen priced at R549

Die Hugasaurus (Sagteband)

Die Hugasaurus (Sagteband)

Rachel Bright

Die Hugasaurus (Sagteband)

'n Sagte storie oor die soeke na troos en die krag van konneksie.

Last seen priced at R185

Water-Activated Light-Up Sensory Cubes: Zoo (6 Pack)

Water-Activated Light-Up Sensory Cubes: Zoo (6 Pack)

Glo Pals

Water-Activated Light-Up Sensory Cubes: Zoo (6 Pack)

Glowing water play for sensory discovery and hands-on curiosity.

Last seen priced at R389

Plush Baba Bad Seuntjiepop (36 cm)

Plush Baba Bad Seuntjiepop (36 cm)

LullaBaba

Plush Baba Bad Seuntjiepop (36 cm)

Ondersteun kinders om alledaagse versorgingsroetines deur spel te oefen en in te oefen.

Last seen priced at R199

bilibo by MOLUK (Midi)

bilibo by MOLUK (Midi)

bilibo by MOLUK

bilibo by MOLUK (Midi)

Open-ended movement play for balance, creativity and confidence.

Last seen priced at R429

Ontdek Diere: Jumbo Flitskaarte (36 Kaarte)

Ontdek Diere: Jumbo Flitskaarte (36 Kaarte)

Kreatiewes

Ontdek Diere: Jumbo Flitskaarte (36 Kaarte)

Groot, maklik-om-te-sien flitskaarte wat vroeë woordeskat deur visuele leer ondersteun.

Last seen priced at R219

The phrase “educational toy” has always bothered me a little, mostly because it suggests children aren’t learning when they’re simply playing.

And if Montessori has taught me anything, it’s that play is rarely just play.

It’s how children process, practise, test, repeat and make sense of the world.

We are very much reaping the rewards of raising a very independent, very curious Emmett.

Occasionally inconvenient? Absolutely.

Would we have it any other way? Not for a second.

So these gifts are here because they made me pause. Because they feel thoughtful. And because, when our first party invitation eventually arrives, I’d like to bring something that says, “I saw this, and I thought of you.”

Prices & availability: We check every recommendation by hand, but prices and stock can change after a guide is published. If you notice something we've missed, please let us know.

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